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http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_can_you_tell_if_someone_is_a_pathological_liar Sometime it is easy to walk away from a relationship. But it is harder to stay and try your best and make it work. As you can tell, I am the latter. Is anyone here is or formerly living with a pathological liar? If so and you have any successful strategies that have worked for you, please feel free to share them with us so that other people might benefit from your experience. Thanks! You can also read others comments on the following Khmer sites: Khmer.cc, Khmerlife.com, and khmerprofile.com
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posted:LopMok
on 02/16/2010 12:11:34
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Basically you have to reach in deep and find your pain threshold. Exactly where would you draw the line WITHOUT exerting any physical force onto that person. I caught my ex lying, cheating time after time. Not just once did I forgive her, but again and again, just because I thought I was the ONE that could make her into a better person. Each time she cheated on me, my heart grew darker and darker, to the point of hating and wanting the OTHER guy dead. Then I thought to myself, the guy is a guy. All he wanted was what's between her legs, who can blame him right? Anyhow, the simplest way is talking to close friends and family because when you're caught in the moment and to have a heart like mine, you're willing to go through anything to salvage a relationship...holding onto broken glass. What I learn and help ease the detachment, is to list or try to understand from that the cheater's point of view. Reason 1, they don't love you, why love them? Reason 2, they don't love you, why keep them around if they continue to hurt you without a 2nd thought, Reason 3, they don't love you...are you getting the theme here? THEY DON'T LOVE YOU, then why hold on?!
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posted:alex07
on 02/16/2010 12:23:22
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LopMok wrote:
Basically you have to reach in deep and find your pain threshold. Exactly where would you draw the line WITHOUT exerting any physical force onto that person. I caught my ex lying, cheating time after time. Not just once did I forgive her, but again and again, just because I thought I was the ONE that could make her into a better person. Each time she cheated on me, my heart grew darker and darker, to the point of hating and wanting the OTHER guy dead. Then I thought to myself, the guy is a guy. All he wanted was what's between her legs, who can blame him right? Anyhow, the simplest way is talking to close friends and family because when you're caught in the moment and to have a heart like mine, you're willing to go through anything to salvage a relationship...holding onto broken glass. What I learn and help ease the detachment, is to list or try to understand from that the cheater's point of view. Reason 1, they don't love you, why love them? Reason 2, they don't love you, why keep them around if they continue to hurt you without a 2nd thought, Reason 3, they don't love you...are you getting the theme here? THEY DON'T LOVE YOU, then why hold on?!
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^sorry to hear that. my 2 cents: consider your painful experience as a passage to manhood. now, out smart her (yes you know what i mean, do it where it hurts). it doesnt pay to be a nice guy.
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posted:alex07
on 02/16/2010 12:24:17
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JongRaiToyTak wrote:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_can_you_tell_if_someone_is_a_pathological_liar Sometime it is easy to walk away from a relationship. But it is harder to stay and try your best and make it work. As you can tell, I am the latter. Is anyone here is or formerly living with a pathological liar? If so and you have any successful strategies that have worked for you, please feel free to share them with us so that other people might benefit from your experience. Thanks! You can also read others comments on the following Khmer sites: Khmer.cc, Khmerlife.com, and khmerprofile.com
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do you know how people can be train? find their weakness and teach him/her a lesson.
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posted:JongRaiToyTak
on 02/17/2010 02:56:13
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LopMok wrote:
Basically you have to reach in deep and find your pain threshold. Exactly where would you draw the line WITHOUT exerting any physical force onto that person. I caught my ex lying, cheating time after time. Not just once did I forgive her, but again and again, just because I thought I was the ONE that could make her into a better person. Each time she cheated on me, my heart grew darker and darker, to the point of hating and wanting the OTHER guy dead. Then I thought to myself, the guy is a guy. All he wanted was what's between her legs, who can blame him right? Anyhow, the simplest way is talking to close friends and family because when you're caught in the moment and to have a heart like mine, you're willing to go through anything to salvage a relationship...holding onto broken glass. What I learn and help ease the detachment, is to list or try to understand from that the cheater's point of view. Reason 1, they don't love you, why love them? Reason 2, they don't love you, why keep them around if they continue to hurt you without a 2nd thought, Reason 3, they don't love you...are you getting the theme here? THEY DON'T LOVE YOU, then why hold on?!
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Thank you for sharing your past experience with us. You see I am a responsible man. I built my nest and then I look for the mate. However, my mate did not turn out the way I have envisioned it. But the host mate don't want to leave my nest. She just to borrow it until she find a better nest to live by...or my nest is an addition to the thousand nest she have been adding on....Unfortunately, I cannot just fly away from my own nest that I built to last.
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posted:JongRaiToyTak
on 02/17/2010 03:04:13
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quote] do you know how people can be train? find their weakness and teach him/her a lesson. [/quote] Good point.
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